5 Rules When You Setting Up A Threesome
A threesome is not for everyone; it for couples who are willing to set some rules and follow them to later. This is an excellent way to make sure things don’t go out of hand during the threesome. Below are five rules when you are setting up a threesome
1. Fantasize First
Fantasizing prepares you for the real thing. It through it, one can let the other parties of the craziest fantasies he/she want to experience. This can go a long way into giving you much appetite during the actual sexual encounter. It is even better to bring in your partner and fantasize together before inviting the third; it will make you and the partner excited for the real threesome experience.
2. Expect no miracle
Some couples indulge in a threesome, expecting sexual miracles in terms of pleasure. Believe me, the chances are that it will be the same feeling like the one you experience with your partner. However, this doesn't mean it will be boring. Get into threesome with an open mind to avoid frustration, especially when it the first time to bring in a third. From the threesome experience you get, you can borrow some few tips to spice up your sexual life with your partner.
3. Establish Boundaries
Make sure that you have set boundaries before having a threesome. This is to ensure that all parties are comfortable and feel safe on what to do and the limits. Give everyone a chance to express their interest and at the same time declare the turn-offs during the threesome.
Further, threesome dating safety shouldn't be left to chances. Agree to use protection during the sex, or if need gets tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases and HIV/AIDS and if everyone is clean you can decide to go raw; it is even more erotic and sweeter.
4. Agree who to host threesome
After agreeing on your sexual health and protection, discuss who will be the host of the threesome. This is to enable the partner to host to make the necessary preparation and creating a good mood for the threesome. This also helps to avoid any inconveniences in terms of disturbances from other people, for example, having visitors on that day.
5. Appreciate each other
After getting into an intimate threesome, discuss how it was, and give credit where it deserves. Further, you can express your disappointment but say it in a positive tone to avoid sounding selfish. From here you can agree when to have such an experience again.
There are many rules which a couple can set before getting into a threesome. However ,these rules shouldn’t be so strict that makes the whole thing annoying. Moreover set rules which everyone can follow, don’t be selfish to only go for those which suits you.
